I’m sorry about your story, but you should know that it’s not because someone hurt you that you have to hurt other. You just need to understand why they act like that and take everything that could make you a better guy. It’s the same for ioptio, try to understand why she’s acting like that.
We are jumping one extreme to the another.
Neither extremes are sane.
One side we have an oversensitive lady who takes things too seriously, on the other hand we have a guy who doesn’t give a crap about common courtesy.
The truth is somewhere in the middle.
If a comment can be perceived as offensive but its intention wasn’t offensive, just laugh it up.
If a comment is perceived offensive AND its intention was clearly offensive, then point that out.
I realized that perceiving other people’s intentions is hard, especially when we have aspergers.
Sometimes we get offended at the literal meanings and can’t perceive the irony, parody or satire.
For example, we perceive something racist when it was actually a parody on stereotypes.
The guy who doesn’t give a shit about other people’s emotions (and yet he still wonders why he is getting beat up), shares the same homework:
the common denominator for both extremes is to learn to be empathetic.
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Could you please open an another thread to discuss those stupids and childish hate rages ? The subjetct is about Maidsafe security and the NSA.
Thanks.
Any mod on this forum ?
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